Ch Ch Changes!

No, not the song!  But in the fall trees and in my life!  I believe that we are all growing people and it is important to change things sometimes.  So while riding through the mountains the other day I did a lot of thinking and praying.  I feel like it is time to make some goals and changes for my life.  I once heard that it was proven if you write them down you are more likely to follow through them.  So here is my list of changes I want to make

• Wake up before Tempe and shower, dress, and put make up on each day.
• Only spend two hours a day on the computer.
• Daily devotionals each night.
• Work better at saving my family money.
• Keep laundry washed up.
• Mop and vac each day.
• Plan menus for weekly meals.
• Only eat out once a week.
• Give more to the church.
• Attend church on a more regular basis.
• Give more to others.

There are some more personal ones that I don't want to post for the world to see that I am writing somewhere else!  And I am sure there are more to add to this.  But these are a few and are important to me.  Most of these I do sometimes just not always or used to do but don't anymore so it is time to get back on track!!

Fall Leaves

Today we took a family trip to the mountains to see the fall leaves.  We had a very relaxing day.  We went up and stopped and bought Tempe a pumpkin for us to carve for her

and some apple butter, blackberry syrup, peanuts, and Josh some pickled eggs (yuck!).

We drove to the Mill and walked around also.  We had such a great day and it was so nice to take the time to look at everything God created.  It gave me a really good chance to do a lot of thinking and praying about several things that have been on my mind.

Ziploc Book

Mrs. Leslie came this morning!  She had a great activity I had to share with you.  It is called a Ziploc book.  What this is for is an inexpensive way to make your own books.  Babies at the age need books with pictures of real things.  What you do is cut some construction paper to the size of your baggie, cut out or print off pictures of real things, glue them to the paper, put them in the baggies, and hole punch and tie your baggie together.  You now have a book of real pictures that if your baby chews up you can just throw it away!!  Very inexpensive and I bet you have all of this laying around your house.  :)

You can choose to tie them together on the zip part so the little fingers cant open them or you can do it along another edge of the bag so that you can open it and change out the pictures.

Just make sure you glue the pictures going the right way if you do them on both sides!!  Mrs. Leslie and I got to talking and we glued some of them the wrong way!!

Share Your Talents and Ideas

Tonight was the first night of our MOPS share your talents and ideas night.  It it was so much fun!!  It was nice to get with the ladies and learn something new.  Elizabeth showed us how to make bows.  She also showed how to fold napkins but I had to leave before she was able to do that.  I have to tell that although I am just really getting to know her Elizabeth is such a inspiration to me.  She is a wonderful, friendly woman that has so many talents.  I just really admire and look up to her.  All of the ladies of this group are wonderful women.  I almost left in tears because of something that one of the ladies I knew before Mops said.  Someone asked if we had known each other before Mops and how and her answer was that God brought us together.  That really meant a lot to me because I feel the same way.  God put her in my life right when we started fertility treatments and her and her husband had just had twin babies as a result of treatments.  I had no one in my life that had been there and gone through what I was getting ready to go through and He brought her to me to help me get thorough what I was getting ready to go through!  I know that He has also brought all of these ladies to me right now in this perfect time as apart of His plan!

National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Day

Today is National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Day.  We all light a candle at 7pm our time in remembrance of those babies lost.

Our candle lit.

This is a very sensitive subject for me.  I have several friends that have lost babies in both ways.  Where I can not begin to imagine the sadness and lost they or any parents as felt losing a baby I do know how it feels to do everything you possibly can to try for a baby.  Each month that you try you feel as though you "lost" that baby for that month.  No it wasn't a true baby yet but it was that chance at a baby.  And that chance is now gone.  While waiting in the waiting room at my fertility specialist office I was reading a magazine for parents with infertility and an article written by a doctor that had done studies described a parent dealing with infertility as suffering from the same emotions as those parents that had lost a baby.  So where I have never knowingly 100% for sure lost a baby I light this candle in remembrance of all the babies that could have been for us. 

I urge you to light your own candle, even if it is after 7pm because I know I am late posting this.  And when you light that candle pray for all of the babies, parents, and families of babies that have been lost.  One's that were lost before they came to this world, one's that were only here a short time, and one's that could have been for parents suffering with infertility.

How to add gadgets to your blog

There are a lot of things you can add to your blog such as pictures, counters, links, and lots more.  Most of these are called Gadgets.  There are several different ways to add these and I am going to show you the basic here.  Your blog is set up with three started gadgets followers, blog archive, and about me.  First log into blogger and then go to design.  On the left hand side click "Add a Gadget".

There will be a list of all kinds of gadgets you can add.  I am going to show you how to do a picture gadget.  I use this alot on my blog.  You can use this to add photos on the side of you/family or you can add graphics you find online as I have to label my Favorites, Followes, etc.  Once in "Add a Gadget" click on Picture.

You can title or caption your picture but remember that will show on your blog!  I am going to upload a label picture.

Once you have added your picture and you are back to your design page you can move it around to where you need it.  It will go in any of the spots with the dotted line around it, or where it says Add a Gagdet. 

Now you can add pictures of yourself or labels for your gadgets already there!!  Now I am going to show you how to get those lables online!

 

Autumn Leaves (Failed to post on Saturday and went to draft post)

Friday morning I hosted my first play date for my small group within my MOPS group.  It was one at a local park where we painted pumpkins and played.  Only one mom and her son (3) were able to come because of vacations but we had a blast.  Little Eli was so much fun and so fearless. I was surprised at him running and sliding!!

Pumpkin I painted for Tempe

Friday night we took off and drove to a near by town and their fall street festival.  I am a little obsessed with street festivals this time of year.  I love to walk around and people watch and see all different types of crafts.  Tempe is going to be just like me when it comes to this!  While we walked around she waved and said "hey" to people.  She had so much fun and it brought so much joy to me to watch her smile and try to talk to everyone.  Things are still no new to her and she is learning and experiencing so much that the looks in her eyes are worth all five years of tears, meds, doctors, and anything else we had to go through to get her here.  It is just so amazing not only to watch her but realize that yes we did do this.  Even with never knowing what was wrong and being told that they couldn't find out why we couldn't have a baby and thinking that there was a possibility of never having a baby we did it!  We have our daughter, she is here, in our arms!  It was a great evening just us three as a family all on our own.  We do so much with extended family and friends, which we love, but it was nice just to be us for a change.